Some moments in ministry stay with you forever—not because they were loud or dramatic, but because they were deeply human.
One afternoon at the community I serve, I experienced one of those moments. As I stepped out of the building across from the Chapel, I saw Rose—a resident I hadn’t seen in over two years—sitting at the front, waiting. The moment she saw me, she ran toward me and embraced me tightly. With tears in her eyes, she said, “It is hard to forget you. Thank you, thank you.”
Her words were simple, but they carried the weight of a story that unfolded years earlier.
The Story Behind the Gratitude
More than two years ago, I found Rose (not her real name) crying and restless in the corner of the Lounge. She was in visible distress. I approached her gently, offering support, but she rejected it, angrily asking me to leave. I respected her space, but I didn’t walk away. I stayed nearby, quietly present, letting her know she wasn’t alone.
The next day, she came to my office with a thank-you card. She shared something that shook me: the day before, she had been contemplating suicide. My presence—just being there—had given her the strength to reconsider. She chose life. That moment changed both of us.
Lessons in Presence and Compassion
Rose’s story reminds me that sometimes, the most powerful ministry is one that remains silent. It’s not in the words we say, but in the space we hold. It’s in being available, being present, and being willing to stay—even when we’re pushed away.
Reconnecting with her reminded me of the sacredness of human relationships and the enduring power of kindness. Even a short time of being present can carry eternal significance.
Reflections to Carry Forward:
- Presence can save lives.
You don’t always need the right words—just the willingness to stay. - Kindness leaves a lasting imprint.
Rose remembered not what I said, but that I was there. - Healing takes time—and grace.
What began as rejection became a moment of deep connection. - We are called to be available.
Ministry isn’t always about fixing—it’s about showing up.
Call to Action
Let’s be present for someone today.
Whether through a quiet visit, a kind word, or simply sitting nearby—your presence could be the light someone needs. Share this story, start a conversation, or reach out to someone who may feel forgotten. You never know the difference you might make